感人的故事

有一个小男孩因為車禍失去了雙腿,他覺得世界一片黑暗,從此意志消沉。
他常常隔着玻璃窗看見別的孩子在跑來跑去,而他只能痛苦地坐在輪椅上。

他姐姐用許多話語勸導他、安慰他,拿來許多書讓他看,想讓他從學習中忘掉痛苦。
可是,對他毫无用處,他討厭地把書都扔了。他姐姐看在眼里,急在心里。

有一天晚上,姐姐興奮地对他说:“你看對面的房子。”

弟弟不解地看着:“不過有一盞燈而已。”

“你知道里面住的是誰嗎?”

“不知道。”

“是一个癱瘓的小女孩,可是她一点都不消沉,她非常珍惜自己的時間;
努力地學習各種東西,寫的文章也常常發表呢!一直到晚上十一点才關灯。”

听了姐姐的話,弟弟感到慚愧,立志要向小女孩學習。
每當他累了,只要望見對面的灯光,就有了力量,
對面的小女孩還沒睡呢!于是他就繼續學習

有一天,他姐姐因為救一個落水的學生而逝世了,他感到无比的痛苦。
姐姐,一個曾幫助他重新站起來的姐姐,竟然离他而去了。
還有那那個小女孩,我一定要去看看她!

第二天,他坐着輪椅到了對面,找到那間房子時,他激動地敲了門,
却沒有人開門。一會兒,一個老奶奶從隔壁出来: “你找誰?”

“找住在這兒的小女孩!”

“小女孩?你找錯了吧?這里從來沒人住!”

“那怎麼每天晚上都有燈光?”

“噢!那是有一個姑娘曾經租下了房子,却說不住人,只叫我每天晚上開了燈,
十一点再關燈!”

他听了這話,不由得留下眼淚,喃喃地說:“ 姐姐,
是你在黑夜里為我点亮了心中的燈!”

~~~~~

是啊!每個人心中都有這樣的一盞灯,特别是那些軟弱的,不幸的,
生活在痛苦陰影下的人,更需要有人凭愛心在他们黑暗、迷茫的時候点亮一盞希望的燈。

Gratitude Unlocks the Fullness of Life

"The hardest arithmetic to
master is that which enables us to count our blessings."
~ Eric Hoffer

According to legend, a young man while roaming the desert came across a spring of delicious crystal-clear water. The water was so sweet he filled his leather canteen so he could bring some back to a tribal elder who had been his teacher.

After a four-day journey he presented the water to the old man who took a deep drink, smiled warmly and thanked his student lavishly for the sweet water. The young man returned to his village with a happy heart.

Later, the teacher let another student taste the water. He spat it out, saying it was awful. It apparently had become stale because of the old leather container.

The student challenged his teacher: "Master, the water was foul. Why did you pretend to like it?"

The teacher replied, "You only tasted the water. I tasted the gift. The water was simply the container for an act of loving-kindness and nothing could be sweeter."


I think we understand this lesson best when we receive innocent gifts of love from young children. Whether it's a ceramic tray or a macaroni bracelet, the natural and proper response is appreciation and expressed thankfulness because we love the idea within the gift. Gratitude doesn't always come naturally. Unfortunately, most children and many adults value only the thing given rather than the feeling embodied in it. We should remind ourselves and teach our children about the beauty and purity of feelings and expressions of gratitude. After all, gifts from the heart are really gifts of the heart.

Self-motivation without gratitude is impossible. Our energy is "sapped" when our entire focus is on what's wrong instead of what is right with our lives. One of our greatest challenges is to live and love in spite of pain and disappointment…to find gratitude in the midst of it all.

Reflect for a moment on this beautiful quote from Melody Beattie:

"Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow."

Great Source of Teaching and Research on Abstinence and Sex Education


Abstinence is the new cool!

Physicians For Life . org
http://www.physiciansforlife.org/

From "About Us"

Physiciansforlife.org exists to draw attention to the issues of abortion, euthanasia, stem cell research, cloning, infanticide, teen pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, out-of-wedlock sexual activity and the medical merits of risk elimination through sexual abstinence. Our sponsoring organization, Alabama Physicians For Life, Inc. (APFLI), was founded in 1986 and has produced a series of brochures, booklets, and digests which are distributed throughout the USA, and internationally.

This website has a tremendous task: to accurately inform large numbers of individuals regarding the above-mentioned issues, to help network and build a spirit of community for all who feel alone in their pro-life stand, and to provide lengthy resource lists for a wide range of pro-life and abstinence needs.

We hope you will peruse our brochures and all our links so that when you leave this site, you will have a better understanding of the medical issues facing our nation today. Please pass our website address along to your family and friends.

We invite physicians and other medical professionals throughout the USA, and even throughout the world, who do not have a pro-life organization with which to associate, to consider joining our organization.

APFLI is an IRS not-for-profit 501 (c)(3) organization which has no hidden benefactors. All our work is accomplished solely through annual membership donations (tax-deductible). By joining our organization, you will help us reach and awaken an ever-increasing number of people to the realities of abortion, infanticide, embryonic research, euthanasia, STDs, and sexual activity outside marriage.

修身:手淫与邪淫的危害你无法想象 【转载】

文章来源:http://www.xuefo.net/nr/article12/124626.html

  笔者感到非常心痛,希望每个读到这篇文章的人对照身边的人或事例思考,想想我阐述的对不对?

  邪淫对身体的危害!

  现代社会,亚健康人群比例越来越大。调查显示:北京地区56.7%的人处于亚健康状态,以白领居多。真正健康的人群不足四分之一。

  笔者作为中医师,遇到很多病患,虽经中西医长期调治,收效甚微。其最主要原因之一,就是患者不懂得保养元气。人体的健康好比水箱,医生的作用是帮助往水箱里灌水。灌满水的前提是什么?是保证水箱不再漏水,事先将下水口堵住。否则,灌得越快,漏得越快,灌得越多,漏得越多。常此下去,缺口越来越大,身体的精华丧失殆尽,健康也就垮下去了。

  生活中,损伤身体的方式有很多,针对现代人的普遍存在的问题,总结为三大主要方式:

  最直接——邪淫(意淫、手淫、纵欲……)

  最快速——熬夜

  最剧烈——动真怒

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The Neglected Heart: Emotional Effects of Sex Outside Marriage

Article Source: http://www.physiciansforlife.org/content/view/255/27/

 

What's the BIG DEAL about Sex?

Why does it MATTER if I have Sex, or not?

 

There Are Emotional Consequences of Premarital Sexual Involvement:

Your sexuality is a huge part of who you are as a person.

It is to be protected and safe-guarded for the good of your whole being, and only shared in a permanent, life-long, trusting, and committed monogamous relationship traditionally known as marriage.

Otherwise, your whole being gets ripped and torn and you lose your identity as a unique person.

No two people are exactly alike. Each of us is a unique, one-of-a-kind personality.

And while every person will respond differently to situations and experiences, there are still many negative psychological consequences that most people experience to some degree when they engage in premarital sexual involvement.

Here are 10 negative psychological consequences that many people experience:

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善惡因果報應 —— 百善孝為先,万恶淫为首!


《阴律无情》
http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/articlelist_2163451163_1_1.html

冥王律令
http://tbsn.org/chinese2/article.php?id=2567
http://tw.myblog.yahoo.com/jw!r9HFnGufFR6bJzP7L6h2jA–/article?mid=186&prev=187&next=185

冥王律令之外(序)
http://tbsn.org/chinese2/article.php?id=7846
http://blog.udn.com/kinshing/4298637

冥罚淫律(原文)
http://www.shuimo.com/chan/mitzvah/five/jie303.htm

冥罚淫律(白话版)
http://club.china.com/data/thread/1011/2724/11/94/0_1.html

http://www.fjyj.cc/Html/?457.html

《玉历宝钞》
http://a.bonze.cn/wlsjwz/330.htm
http://bookgb.bfnn.org/books2/1471.htm

《玉歷寶鈔》
http://book.bfnn.org/books2/1471.htm

宣化上人关于非典的预言
http://www.xuanhuafb.com/html/xhsrdr/xhsryy2.htm


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三世因果经
http://a.bonze.cn/wlsjwz/317.htm

三世因果經
http://tw.myblog.yahoo.com/jw!UGA6i1WfGRT_XmkfsKbA1KagHw–/article?mid=8833&l=d&fid=21

圆寂复魂师地狱游记
http://www.fosss.org/Book/DiYuYouJi/

阴间十三站——一位通灵居士入冥见闻录
http://www.douban.com/group/topic/18778616/

地獄遊記
http://www.dehuei.com/mod/www/webdoc.php?skkeyby=doccategory&skkey=162

其他遊記
http://www.dehuei.com/mod/www/doccategory.php